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SEND: getting support for your child at school

Ask for SEN support and an EHCP without being fobbed off.

Hi, can I have a meeting with the SENCO about Sam?

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Talking to the school4

  1. Can I have a meeting with the SENCO?The SENCO is the Special Educational Needs Co-ordinator, the teacher who leads SEN support.
  2. Is he on SEN Support?Support the school gives from its own budget, with a plan that's reviewed regularly.
  3. What reasonable adjustments can you make?A phrase from the Equality Act.
  4. She's masking at schoolShe holds it together all day at school, then falls apart at home.

Assessments and plans4

  1. We're on the waiting list for an autism assessmentWaits can be very long.
  2. I'd like to request an EHC needs assessmentParents can ask the local council for this in writing.
  3. The plan needs to be specific and quantifiedAn EHCP should say what support, who gives it and how often, such as '3 x 30-minute sessions a week', not just 'access to support'.
  4. When's the annual review?EHCPs have to be reviewed every year.

Pushing back5

  1. Support should be based on need, not diagnosisThe line to use if the school says 'we'll wait for the diagnosis'.
  2. We're going to appeal to the tribunalThe SEND Tribunal hears appeals against council decisions.
  3. I feel like we're being fobbed offBeing brushed off with excuses.
  4. Could you put that in writing, please?Get every promise, refusal and decision by email.
  5. Why is he on a reduced timetable?Sending a child home early or having them in part-time should be short-term, agreed and reviewed.

Free advice1

  1. Is there a SENDIASS near me?A free, impartial SEND information and advice service.
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Who is the SENCO?

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